Do you like to look at asses (women's or men's) and then rate them? Maybe you secretly do in your mind as they pass you by during the day. If so, the folks at American Apparel are catering to your hobby! They are having a Search for the Best Bottom in the World. Here are the links to women and men. Okay, go forth and ogle!

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TMI Tuesday #223 - Masturbation Edition

This TMI is from last week, and I thought the questions were interesting.

1. When you masturbate, how long, typically, is your session and what do you think about (other than having an orgasm)? I like to edge - multiple cycles of stimulation up to the brink of orgasm, stopping to calm down, then repeating - so my typical sessions can be for hours. When I travel and have nothing else to do in the evenings (or after running and/or dinner), I can edge from 3-5 hours before orgasm. Not sure what the longest session was.

2. Have you ever been "caught" masturbating? Only once that I know of. It was late at night, she had gone to bed, and I was at the computer. An hour later she came in to see what was keeping me up.

3. Have you ever masturbated in front of your computer? If 'yes' was it for your own purposes or for someone's viewing pleasure? Lately in front of the computer is the main place I do it. Before computers and internet porn, I used to have quite a collection of magazines (and I still have a few years of Leg Show), and I'd either do it on the bed or on the couch. Now that there's so much on the internet (pictures and video), I'm usually there surfing and doing it. And since I don't have a web cam, it's been only for myself.

4. Have you ever attended a group masturbation party? Same-sex or mixed? No, and this is something I've seriously wanted to do for a very long time. Seeing others and being seen by others all going at it together (but no contact between anyone) would be such a turn on, everyone doing their own thing. Talking to eachother, cheering others on, hearing others' moans and groans, all of it would be so exciting. Any volunteers?!!

5. When masturbating, as you reach orgasm, do you continue to stimulate yourself without interruption, or do you stop and apply pressure until your spasms subside? Or? I usually stop to clean up the mess.

6. Have you ever video'ed yourself while masturbating (solo)? Where are they now? I have a few times. Most were deleted soon afterwards (bad camera angle, poor lighting). There's one at my Flickr account.

Bonus (as in optional): How often do you use the word "fuck" (or its derivatives) in casual conversation - frequently, occasionally, rarely, never. I don't use curse words too often. The more they are used casually the less power they have when used.

Argh! It's been too long since my last post, and there really hasn't been much going on to blog about. And I haven't had much time to read your blog either. Trying to fnd time...

Hope everyone had a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! In Philadelphia about a foot of snow fell a couple days before Christmas so it was very white for the first time in many years. And, on cue, it warmed up, rained, and all the snow melted on the day after. I had a nice bit of time off of work from just before Christmas through the New Year’s weekend, and didn’t spend much of any of it on line. Most of it was spent eating, playing on the Wii and the Wii Fit Plus that we bought for Christmas, and brewing a batch of beer. I do have to recommend the Wii Fit Plus for anyone that doesn’t have it. It’s much more interactive than just playing games with a hand controller.

The New Year also started with another business trip to Florida. On one hand I would have liked to have stayed home, but on the other it was somewhat warmer in Florida than Philadelphia. I say somewhat because Florida’s been having the coldest weather in 90 years. A co-worker also made the trip with me, being more of an annoyance than anything else. He’s the type that is constantly talking and whining about something or another, and somehow doesn’t seem to really listen to what others are talking about. We went to see “Avatar” in 3D the one night, and I hoped for a few hours of silence to enjoy the film. However, he managed to make comments from the start of the previews all the way through the ending credits. Fantastic movie by the way! If you haven’t seen it I highly recommend it. And make it the 3D version. It would be a very good movie in 2D, and the 3D is just beautiful. It’s not like older 3D films that were gimmicky with the effects, or that the effects were so bad that they seemed forced. No, the 3D was so real and life-like that I forgot it was in 3D – it was very natural and immersive.

Anyway, I tryed to keep up with the blogsphere last week with little success. Nothing new to speak about with crossdressing or other sexual antics. Last week I didn’t have much time for anything other than some “me” time after late dinners while surfing on-line. I’m back in Florida again this week so maybe I’ll have some time to have some fun. Hopefully this week will be much better. I’ll run a couple of the nights, maybe head up to the outlet mall one night (especially since Victoria’s Secret is having their semi-annual sale!). I could use a new pair of women’s jeans, and a new pair of heels are always fun.

Day 2 (posted on Day 3): I stared out yesterday afterwork planning to be good. I showered, changed, and went to the big Sawgrass Outlet Mall to do some Christmas shopping. And I stayed good there - only buying "work" panties (plain cotton whities that I wear under my work clothes) to replace the worn out ones, and a sweater at Banana Republic. Dinner was take-out from PF Changs, and the beer I drank while eating in my hotel room was a Santa's Butt porter. That's when trouble started. I had planned on just watching "Watchmen" last night and getting a good night's rest. The pint of beer with 8% ABV was just enough for me to start surfing the web while eating (and the panties I was wearing (and nothing else)) just added to my salacious thoughts. I watched a few porn vids and chatted with a few Yahoo chat friends. Then, just as I was ready to 'spill the beans', some malware started downloading on my laptop. So I spent the next 2 hours exorcising the demons. Kharma I guess.

Day 3 (today): Not much has gone right at work today. Maybe the afternoon will be more productive. It's been pouring down rain here too. I went out for lunch to a Cuban diner for take-out. Here's how the conversation went:

Me: "I'd like to order a choripan and a naranja to drink." (a Spanish sausage sandwich and a fresh-squeezed orange juice)
Cuban waitress : "Chicharron de pollo y dos naranja?" (marinated chicken chunks with rice & onions, a side of black beans, another side dish, and two orange juices)
Me: "No, una choripan and an oraange juice.
Her: "Una chicarron y dos naranja."
Me: "No." Me pointing to the menu at the choripan. "Una choripan."
Her: "Okay."

Ten minutes later I have an order of chicharron de pollo and I had to stop her from making the second orange juice. I thought about sending it back, but I had to get back to work. After eating about 1/2 a chicken and all of that rice, I'd have to say that was about the best chicken I've had in a very long time! I don't have room to eat the french fries and black beans. So maybe the afternoon will go better...

This week's trip - Day 1: A co-worker lent me the DVD "District 9". It's the science fictin movie about a group of aliens that come to Earth and are housed in slums in South Africa. Did you see it? The lead character reminds me of 'Michael Scott' from 'The Office'. It was an okay movie, a good rental. While I watched it I ate some sushi take-out and drank a Mad River Brewing Co. Steelhead Scotch sytle porter and a Lagunitas Brown Shugga' Ale. Both were very good. And I did all of this in my panties.

Treacle over at Stockings Addict Lingerie Blog is having a Christmas contest for a Kiss Me Deadly waist cincher. Go check it out!!

To continue my thoughts from the last post, the kicker for me is being alone while on these trips - something I hate. The appeal of the Internet is the easy way of connecting with others, and that then makes the idea of meeting people IRL even more tempting. Conversely, I like being around people, but hanging out with folks from work is the last thing I want to do on these trips. I'm not looking forward to January when one of my co-workers will be going with me for at least one of the trips.

So the trip for next week is booked, only four days instead of five. What's on the after work agenda? Running two or maybe three of the nights for sure. I do have some Christmas shopping to do, so I should plan a trip to the outlet mall. There is also a Jai Alai arena there. I've seen the sign while going to the airport and thought about going to see a match. And I've never driven through Ft. Lauderdale or Miami, so that could be something to do. There's a Blockbuster nearby, so there's renting a movie or two.

Might be making another trip next week for a couple of days - just tentative at this time. If I do go, I need to plan my time better. Last week I kind of let my lust guide my after-work activities. Sure, I ran two nights (and haven't' had a chance since then). But I want to do more that just run and hang out on the Internet all night. I can't make going to that Starbucks a too-frequent event - there's more to life than being "that weird guy." I wish there was some sort of fetish group that met there so I could be just one of many weird people.

Over the months I've been chatting with another crossdresser that lives very close to the hotel at which I stay. We've never met IRL, and I'm not sure he's seen any of the pictures I've posted here or at my FetLife profile. The small pictures I've seen of her are very nice - she makes a much better CD than me! We were supposed to meet last week while I was out on a run and shw was walking her dogs, but our paths didn't cross as I was looking for the wrong person. Anyway, we toyed about going to one of the adult stores or to one of the CD/TV nightclubs in the area. Part of me wants to, part of me doesn't. I mean, she's so much better looking than me in girl mode that I'd feel awkward as I'm not passable. And the thought of being with her at either of our places is kind of uncomfortable as I've never been alone with another CD before. Not to say that anything sexual would be on the agenda. I'd be more comfortable if there were another CD/TV or (even better and especially) a woman.

I've also been chatting with a M/F couple from FetLife. He's a Dom and she's his sub, and they were looking for someone to dominate by phone. After a few weeks of e-mails as Yahoo chats, we did speak by phone last week. They certainly fit my bill for compatiblity. I told them that if we were ever to meet, I'd be subservant to both of them, and I'd do anything to serve Her like a princess. So far it's been fun to play like this. Not sure if anything IRL will have the chance to happen.

Hmm, I've seemed to have lost a Follower, but I can't remember who.

Day 3. Here's the sports bra I bought for tonight's run.I first planned to wear this shirt on top of it, but the bra isn't very visible.

So I changed into this white shirt. A bit better.

And after the run - very visible. I know that at least one girl saw the bra when I ran past her and her boyfriend.

As you can see here, the color ran from my sweat.

And now I'm in these shorts.

Stripes

The socks are from American Apparel. They are so much better than the ones from Target.

How was your Thanksgiving? I ran a Turkey Trot 5K and came within 8 seconds of my personal record for that length. Next 5K I'll try to break it. Not much other news from the weekend.

Florida trip Day 1: I arrived at the airport earlier than usual due to the availability of my ride to the train station. I checked in and found that the airline rescheduled me to an earlier flight. Great! There was a slight delay getting on the plane, but it wasn't until everyone was on that they announced that, due to a change in the aircraft's original destination, they needed to unload some of the fuel. So we sat there for 1-1/2 hours. All in all, this "earlier" flight was only 20 minutes earlier than my original flight.

Tonight after work I ran a few miles with a bra under my shirt. It was visible in the light, but not in the dark that I ran in. I don't think anyone saw me. Tomorrow I'm planning to go to a sporting goods store to get a jogging bra and tank top. After showering I put on my black & white outfit - black stockings, black bra, white panties, white blouse, black pants - and went to buy a new pair of heels and then to the adult store. I wish they had a better selection of shoes. At the adult store I watched a movie in the arcade, something along the lines of a mother-daughter swap among friends. Later I went to a Starbucks for some coffee - and got a few good looks from a table of four girls and a table of an older couple. Now I'm having some 'me' time at the hotel room.

I know I haven't posted in a while, and the posts have been few and far between. I've spent more time commenting on others' blogs, and I was without Internet access for most of last week. I will try to post more. Separating my blog entries from my Facebook posts is another reason for the lack of posts. I'd post more here, but if someone were to stumble upon duplicate posts/pictures, my cover would be blown.

In a round-about way I'll just say that I've been an active runner in the last few months running longer races. And I won another award for one of my homebrews.

And my hopes for having some fun during my next trip to Florida may be hindered by a co-worker that wants to go there with me to do some other work at the plant. Up to today I was really looking forward to mixing crossdressing and running, taking some candid pictures, and just have some good 'ol naughty fun. Hopefully his wife will have to go out of town that week and he'll have to stay here.

Jamielin's post about crossdressing and running is very inspiring to me. He posted about a recent run where he wore a sports bra under his running shirt, pink anklet socks, and panties under running shorts. Earlier this year I went running a few times wearing a women's tank top and anklet socks. The top actually felt a lot better than most of the men's shirts I've worn. I wasn't more daring than that as I was running in the evening sun of the middle of the summer. Now that the days are much shorter, I think I should be able to be more daring under the cover of night.


I do have another business trip to Florida sometime before the year's end, so I'll plan a run wearing a sports bra under a running shirt, or maybe even getting a shimmel (a tank top with a built-in bra), anklet socks, and maybe I'll be able to find a pink pair of running shorts (or a running skort or skirt). And either before or after the run I'd have to go somewhere to buy some water and to see who notices my outfit. The hardest part about running in such an outfit would be, well, getting hard. A tight pair of panties under the shorts might help, or not, or just make it better!

Just thinking about this is making me very horny.

Contest: Gender Carnival!

I saw this over at Heartbreak Nymphomania. Go over to her blog and post your answer to the question "What does gender mean to YOU?" She's giving away some great adult toys (see her blog for complete details).

My answer: That’s a deep question. For me gender is more about the mind than the physical aspects of sex. I mean, the one who has the penis is the males sex, and the vagina the female sex (almost always). Gender is more about what that person thinks of themself. Does the person think themself a male or female, or some combination of both? Gender is also how they want to project themselves to others. Do they take on the stereotypical traits of the male or the female, or a combination? As a crossdresser, I’m male and I like to wear women’s clothes and shave my body hair to be more feminine. I take on some of the traits of women, but I’m obviously a man.

Wikipedia has a pretty good entry on it.

The weekend:

1. A week ago I bought a new TV, an HDTV, and this past weekend I picked up the HD cable box from the cable service. It took me most of Saturday and Sunday afternoon to connect the cable box, the VCR/DVD player, the TV, and the stereo together. The arrangement is not perfect, but it'll do for now. I can watch the HD channels, listen to CDs using the DVD player (I ran out of room for the stand-alone CD player), and listen to the TV through the stereo. The crutch in all this is the VCR/DVD player. I know, who still uses a VCR? (The same guy that still has about 60 music cassettes.) Since it's a combo device using just one set of cables doesn't do much good. In the perfect arrangement I'd have component cables from the DVD output to the TV, as well as the co-axial cable from the VCR output to the TV, and DVD audio output to the stereo. I just need more cables. I think if I use a DVI cable to connect the cable box to the TV and use the component cables on the DVD player I should be set. ramble, ramble, ramble... Anybody know if a DVI cable is better than component cables?

2. Not that there was much else to do. A pair of Nor'easters came up the coast Thursday and soaked the region with rain until Sunday morning. I did get a run in Sunday morning. That felt good as I didn't have time to run all week. I'll be running a 10K this coming weekend and I need to be in good form for it. The cute girl I usually run with won't be there.

3. A neighbor called to ask for some moving help Sunday afternoon. I sat around messing with the cables while I waited for him to call me back, but he never did.

4. Sex was on the menu Saturday morning! We had a good roll in the hay as they say. Just wish we have more time for it. I like having sex when I wake up in the morning, but she prefers it after showering. It's just too darn comfy in the bed for me to get out for all of that!

5. My sister called to say that they had some of the homebrew I gave them, but she couldn't tell me which one they drank, the bourbon barrel porter or the amber ale. Was it dark like coffee or lighter like iced tea? Did it taste like bourbon or more like regular beer? Nope, she couldn't remember what they drank. Oh well. I will be entering both into an upcoming competition later this month.

Here's some eye candy.

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Two posts in one day! As you ma=y have noticed I haven't been traveling since early September. This has been a good thing as it has allowed me to catch up on a lot of stuff that was getting put off due to traveling. At first this was great - I was tired of the constant back-and-forth, cramped flights, not sleeping in my own bed, etc. The up side was that I was accustomed to having lots of time to dress up in my girly clothes, go out for some fun in them, spend (probably too much) time masturbating and surfing the Interweb for porn and chats after work every night. Now I'm getting a bit antsy. I'm horny all the time, and it seems that in the last 6 weeks either 'Aunt Flow' has been at our house or one or both of us has some sort of cold. I'm starting to miss all the 'me' time I had.

No, I wouldn't want to trade this life for that. I just need a little bit of it. I want some time to go shopping for some new girl-clothes, to dress up, to edge for a long while.