Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Two posts in one day! This one has to do with new interests, or developing current interests. Some of the blogs I follow are about sissys, others about female-led relationships, and some about spanking. I have a growing interest in all three combined. I like some of the aspects of the sissy lifestyle. Per Wikipedia, "In the BDSM practice of forced feminization, the male bottom undergoing cross-dressing may be called a sissy as a form of erotic humiliation, which may elicit guilt or sexual arousal, or possibly both, depending on the individual." I do consider myself a sub, at least in mind if not in practice. I'd love to be forced feminized and humiliated. I like some of the clothes associated with sissys - pinks, ruffles, girly things that teens might wear. I don't like the 'baby' or 'brat' aspects. (Just to clear up any confusion, my main interest and activity is still age-appropriate crossdressing.)

Female-led relationships. Again, I like the male submissive / Female dominant aspects. i like the idea of serving Her. And not just doing the traditional female household activities. The trick, i think, is in the attitude. She leads because She wants to, not because i want her to. i submit because i want to, and She enjoys it.

Spanking is another aspect of Female dominance. Spanking is such a cathartic activity for both parties. The spanker unleashes physical and mental dominance over the spankee. The spankee in turn endures and enjoys the physical and mental domination.

I can imagine a relationship like Maine subs or Ms. Marie's or Her's or Deirdre's.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Seems to make sense that those fetishes (turn ons) would go together. I'm not really into spanking (never tried it actually, although not opposed to it) and I think of myself as a Dom although being a sub might be fun too.

-Badside